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Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Henley!



Happy Birthday Henley Pierce Backsmeyer!



Dear Henley,1 year ago today, at 9:30am you came into our lives weighing 6lbs 12oz, and 19.5inches long. You were perfect! And we became the luckiest parents all over again.



You have been an angel since day 1. You are the happiest baby and seriously, I can’t believe you have made this 2 kid thing so easy on me.Your year has been filled with milestone after milestone…and you amaze us every day.



You are Miss Social – your pediatrician says you are an extremely social baby and interact incredibly for your age J You are the most adorable ‘waver’ and ‘pointer’ and smile and clap on command. You have a laugh that sounds like a recording of a baby laughing…it's so funny…sometimes when I get you laughing in a shopping cart somewhere (most likely at Target or Schnucks)…you laugh so hard and so funny, that people literally come over from other aisles to hear what that noise is. It sounds like the perfect laugh that you wouldn’t actually hear in person.



You are a delight to take to the Doctors Office. I have been lucky with both of you girls…you love going there whether it’s for a checkup or for an ear infection. When you get your shots and vaccinations, you hold your breath, and your face gets red for a second and we think we are going to hear the worst cry ever….and literally you barely make a peep. Your eyes water so we still know it hurts, but you make a sad face and then you’re over it. The nurses are always impressed. Speaking of doctor visits…your stats at your checkups have ranged a little bit…you usually end up between the 50%-65% for weight, and so far, you have been in the 20-30% for height - (this stat always shocks us, as your parents are giraffes) :) And the doctor usually makes a comment about how that stat is never 100% accurate. You do have tiny feet though, so maybe you will be our little shorty:)

Regardless, we are so blessed to have another healthy baby girl! We will see where you stand at your year check up on Thursday!

You are an aggressive eater – and you aren’t scared to try new foods. You take meal time pretty seriously…I think you get this from your Daddy :)


Your favorite words are Dadda, ByeBye,YEA!, and what I think is a WOW!, Mamma is finally coming out too, but sadly only when you cry :) - that's okay though! You have many other sounds coming out so I can't wait to hear what your next words will be!


You are almost walking - getting so close, you may even be saving those first few steps for your birthday today - but you are a risk taker and seem to be fearless when trying to get to things out of of your reach. Your crawl is impressive, and you fall constantly and are rarely bothered by the hard tumbles you take on the wood floors. You were quick to learn to roll over both ways, and always loved tummy time. Then you did the military crawl for MONTHS, and dragged your cute chubby legs behind you - it was so funny and it looked like it was so hard, but you must be really strong :) Then around 8months, you got the hang of the knees, and you have been crawling all over the place ever since.

You have always been a great sleeper. 10-11hours a night, and then a 3 hour nap during the day. Although, in recent weeks, you have been doing some sort of stand up comic routine around the 3am -4am hour. I blame our current living situation, as your crib is in the same bedroom as ours – so you stand up and laugh and throw your pacifier out, knowing that one of us will get out of bed to give it back. That’s not going to go over so well in the new house though babe…so you’re nights doing that in front of an audience are limited :)

If there is one thing that I am most proud about, it is your admiration for you sister. Hudsen walks into the room and your face lights up like she is Santa Claus. Hudsen hasn’t always given you a lot of ‘house’…and was definitely a little protective of her things and her attention with Daddy and I, but over the last 3-4months, the two of you have become best friends, and nothing makes me happier than when I leave the room and then peek back in and see Hudsen talking to you and teaching you how play with different toys. There is a lot of ‘No Henley, you have to put the block here,’ and then…‘Mommy, come see, she did it!!!’ Hudsen is so proud when she teaches you something new. Obviously, I am getting a kick out of the small things right now, and deep down I do realize the cat fights are probably right around the corner...but I am going to pretend that is not the case for now, as I am still trying to wrap my head around how in one year




we went from this:



To this:




I am a such a lucky lucky mom!



Happy 1st Birthday Henley!



Your dad and I are so proud of you and what you have accomplished in one year….can’t wait to see what year #2 brings!



Love You!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Our Little Pumpkin's 1st Birthday Party!




Party planning for Henley's Big Day started out rough. As I knew we would still be shacking up at Carmie and Popi's House....I needed to find a great spot for the cutie to have the time of her life! I was skeptical of choosing an outdoor venue, because October weather could be really cold, but decided to roll the dice. Come to find out, park pavilion rentals are cut-throat in October, and it was nearly impossible to find a good location...we ended up booking Chesterfield Central Park, which I love!....But had to do it almost 2wks before her actual birthday. Okay, so most people know that I am kind of a birthday freak...all things need to be just right...and I absolutely HATE when they end....so booking it so far in advance was kinda heartbreaking, because I knew that this meant the party would be over sooner....yea, doesn't make much sense...but basically I LOVE looking forward to things....and as events grow near, I have a tendency to get sad...before the day even comes, because I know its almost over. Okay, enough about my mental problems.

As the big day grew near, nap times were consumed with arts and crafts and fun ways to decorate at the party.
With her birthday falling right before Halloween, we decided to have a pumpkin themed party last Sunday morning. We had coffee and donuts, a haystack, and fun pumpkin buckets for party favors. And Courtney Winet designed some super cute invitations to accomodate the theme! :)













Yummy Dunkin Donuts and StL Bread Co Coffee :)





I loved painting the pumpkins that I put on the haystack -the pink/white/orange stripes turned out super fun, and I will definitely be painting more next year.









And thanks to Erin at Lizzie Jean Cookies, we bought some adorable LIGHT UP pumpkin buckets for the kids party favors...and stuffed with a fun box of s'mores - to go :) – and it was fun to add a mylar balloon use these as centerpieces for the tables -although it was a tad windy at times so hard to get a good pic:)







But probably my favorite thing about the party was the 12month poster of pictures. Trust me, I know NOBODY else cares about this....and I knew that when I was making it, but it was just something I wanted to do and be able to save for Henley. It was amazing to go through and look at our little 'pumpkin' and see how much she has grown and changed. I am sad that she will be turning ONE in just a couple of days, and I guess that means she is a....gasp! Toddler?! I can't barely handle that - but I guess I don't have a choice. Why do those first 12months have to go by so fast?!?!

















Okay, back to the party details :) ....












I think the highlight for Miss Henley was when she got to sit on her 'Throne' while we sang 'Happy Birthday' to her and presented her with her very first donut! :)
Here is a video of this memorable moment :)


http://youtu.be/27FYaHyVfgs



It looked like everyone had a great time with the pinata too. Everyone took a turn, and then another turn, and then another turn...






























































































































































but apparently everyone could use a good hitting lesson at Balls N Strikes (or GameDay Ethan) :) - as it took an adult to bust it open so the kiddos could grab some goodies. We were so lucky to have Mr. Casey Sullivan in attendance - as he aggressively stepped up to the plate to help these little ones out....







Grabbing some treats and toys...




































Hudsen cleaning up the remainders from the pinata....as she, and apparently myself and Kim, cannot stand a mess! :) - (we also must really love stripes!) :) haha!















The day was going wonderfully, but unfortunately Hudsen was a tad under the weather. She had been sick all week, but we thought had perked up the day before so didn't hesitate bringing her to the party...as she couldn't possibly miss her little sister turning one. But she wasn't feeling well and Justin and I spent a lot of time during the party taking care of her. She is all better now - so hopefully she will join in whatever festivities we plan on Henley's real birthday :)

My favorite picture of this wonderful day is right here - all the kids (minus Hudsen who was off to the side not doing to good)














A lot of boys here...we were lucky little Emily arrived just in time to be in the picture- as Justin mentioned...if not, it would be confusing as to whether this is a 1st birthday party or a Bachelorette party! :)


Some other fun pics from the morning:























































































Now that the party is over - I am absolutely THRILLED that we did it early! Mostly because the weather was literally PERFECT, but also because now, I get to look forward to her actual birthday next week! And also...having the party early, allowed me to thoroughly enjoy every minute rather than turn into an emotional wreck and accepting the fact that my little baby is turning ONE. I still have another week to enjoy her at 11 and 3/4 months old :)


Okay, so the party was wonderful! Henley honestly had the best day, and really enjoyed all of the attention. She was so lucky to have so many friends and family there to celebrate this special day - she is a lucky lucky lady!

Will this be the only post about Henley turning ONE, let's be honest...probably not :)









*Look at that face! If possible she loves her birthday just as much as I do!*









Celebrating Hudsen's 3rd Birthday!

Written by: Justin

Hudsen’s 3rd Birthday kind of came and went, although we had so much fun! While Henley’s first is just right around the corner, we didn’t feel it necessary to throw 2 big Birthdays so close to one another. Instead we opted to celebrate with just family at Sugar Creek park in the lovely city of Des Peres.
This of course did not deter my wife from giving the pavilion a girlish and PINK makeover. Even while it was only family, Brittani of course had to make sure there were plenty of balloons and party decor. It looked great as it was certainly deserved for our BIG 3 year old!
It didn't take long after some pizza for the present opening to begin as we were dealing with some unforeseen rain/misting and the sinking sun. Good thing we started early because as we expected, Hudsen was showered with gifts. Everything from her new pink Nike jacket from Mimi and Pops to American Girl accessories for her doll, Holly, from Carmie and Popie. This would have been enough, but it wasn’t a party until the Berenstain Bears books started to arrive…and when they did, it was as if they were being dumped by a dump truck. She must have got 25 new books. I’m sure you all know by now that Hudsen loves to read...a true charter member of the Oprah book club, if you know what I’m talking about!! As she was opening the presents and the books kept coming in…you could literally see her thinking of how she was going to read all these books the very same night. Instead, the savvy parents we are…decided to give her about 5 of the 25, which she happens to be still working on studing closely and carefully. Susan even gave Hudsen some of her Berenstain Bear books she had saved since she was little. Brittani and I thought that was so neat! They are in mint condition, and were made so much nicer back then! Hudsen is treating those extra carefully (so far) :)
We ended the evening singing happy birthday presenting her with….you guessed it! A Berenstain Bears cake. Due to her egg allergy, the cake was made with apple sauce rather than egg, which I now suddenly prefer…it was outstanding!!

Hudsen is truly a wonderful daughter! She is at this age that I cannot help but to hang on every word she says. I know that when she speaks she speaks with a purpose, and when she tells me she loves me, it often overwhelms me with happiness. I am now realizing what so many parents have told me so many times, that kids grow up way too fast, and now that Hudsen has turned 3...I am now realizing that. It has been just enough time to have that time to reflect and really see how far she has come.

Happy 3rd Birthday Hudsen!
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Note from the editor: This post was published very late - and I, Brittani Backsmeyer, take full blame, as I have had camera issues/and have been slacking on getting pics/videos uploaded....I am now back at the blog full time - and have personally added the pics below :)










Birthday Girl arriving to her Soiree!
























Mommy and the Birthday Girl!

















One of my Fav's...Daddy and Henley























Popi and Blake enjoying the pizza!








































Pops and a very sleepy Henley










































Present Time! - Looks like a book....






Wait for it...............












Yes! Berenstain Bear books - and she wastes no time strategically organizing them


in a way that just makes good sense :)



















































Blake, Susan and Henley


Checking out her new American Girl stuff!






Only 3 year old I know that stops present time to read one of her books :)






Blowing out the candles on her cake!















Video of everyone singing Happy Birthday Hudsen:

http://youtu.be/uINdhmHxK6c